Condom debate offers another chance to explain porn personnel to us

In not describing the physical attributes or motivations of the players on the other side, Weis—and I’ll throw a lasso around the rest of the mainstream media here, too—implicitly sets up an Us v. Them scenario.

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James Deen reveals himself to Canadians on podcast

“I’m (still) going to go (back) to a world where I have sex with beautiful women every day,” Deen says.

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[PR] Melina Mason will be the hottest fishwife you know

I never had the opportunity to meet the lovely Melina Mason during her short adult career, but if I’m lucky there are some cockles and mussels in my future.

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Porn Star Birthdays: Out And Out with Steve Driver and Traci Lords

“You can’t flunk out of porn” is a rule with exceptions

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29th XRCO Awards Shows Its Dirtypillows

I’ve always felt that naming a Mainstream Favorite is like those movies where the protagonist forsakes his true friends—the misfits!—for the cool kids who have always been mean to him, and will be again.

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Stoya: Fonder with or without the absence

It was like a J. Geils’ “Centerfold” moment for me, except I already knew Stoya when she was a centerfold.

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AB332 and the State of the State of Condoms

…like the Iraq invasion hinging on the Bush Administration’s lie that Saddam Hussein had Weapons of Mass Destruction, the AHF’s WMDs was home-grown AIDS in Porn Valley.

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Adult Industry Moves to Maine Instead

“Some of these apple-picking girls fuck like the Wendigo is after them,” says Allie Haze. “They’re not scared of death.”

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Heavy Traffic at XBiz360

A sleek, informative, and convivial adult business conference with an accompanying awards ceremony, January’s XBiz360 conference was also a subtle battleground of ideas the adult industry is chewing on, from Content vs. Traffic to Free vs. Pay to Old vs. New. The conference underscored the lingering division between Content and Traffic in the porn business, [...]

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The 2012 Ropey Volley Awards: Most Ridiculous Movie of the Year

…there is no accounting for taste, even if there is accounting for height.

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The 2012 Ropey Volley Awards: Books of the Year

Gram Ponante profiles three books worth reading, two that tell us about how we got here and one that wonders why we stay.

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Survey: Porn stars no more “damaged goods” than you

A recently-released study published in the Journal of Sex Research might help to deflate some persistent beliefs about the women who appear in porn films: it turns out that—for the most part—they’re just like you.

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I wanted “Batgirl XXX” to be more Extreme Associates and less Extreme Comixxx

In an attempt to please her inappropriately sexualized father, a woman is initiated into a dangerous business while in a questionable state of mind by two masked men who have sex with her. Perhaps “Batgirl XXX” is a metaphor for porn in general.

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CatalystCon: In the room with sex workers and elephants

…the inaugural CatalystCon in Long Beach was a refreshing, well-organized, and thought-provoking event filled with challenging ideas that didn’t shy away from difficult topics.

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How Fleshlight protects your feelings, and my journey as America’s Greatest Sex Toy Reviewer

Unless the toy is for a part of your person you just can’t get at, like the prostate, or in the case that one has tiny Tyrannosaurus hands, most male-oriented sex toys just add complexity. What type of person wants to add complexity?

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So Long, Hollie Stevens

The wonderful Hollie Stevens succumbed to breast cancer July 2. She was 30.

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MontagFoto 6.23.12—Banks on a Bike

Both Jon Dough and director Jane Waters are now dead, but the remake of “Car Wash Angels” had nothing to do with that. If anything, Gabriella Banks probably prolonged their lives.

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Hospice Hollie, You’re My Hero

Writer/Model/Clown/Bon Vivant Hollie Stevens married comedian Eric Cash last week in a hospital conference room overlooking San Francisco. She and her medical team expect her to be discharged to the couple’s new apartment shortly, where Hollie will begin hospice care.

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When “Bad Ideas” is a good idea

If you agree that porn, bless its heart, is about dressing up the solitary act of masturbation, then the couples’ movie is itself kind of a fetish; It is a paraphilia in which viewers use the performers as props for their own sordid offscreen strivings.

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Octomom masturbates to the inevitable

Will she even make Screech-level money?

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  • Sex At “La Boutique”: It’s A Lingerie Store; It’s Not Like They’re Eating Sandwiches May 20, 2013
    I don't read other people's porn eviews, because it's like sleeping on dubious sheets. But I did look at the boxocver copy of Digital Playground's "La Boutique," and it provided an excellent summary, complete with italics: […]
    Gram Ponante
  • Is “Mother In-Law” the New MILF? May 15, 2013
    Maybe it's "okay," but I don't believe that Eva Karera is this guy's mother in-law. He's not wearing a wedding ring, and Karera refers to the unseen woman as her daughter, not his wife, or even the more familiar "Becky." See? The Social Contract has been broken already. […]
    Gram Ponante

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April 24, 2013
Bawdy Storytelling
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April 25, 2013
29th Annual XRCO Awards
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