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Chanel Camryn, photogrtaphed by Gram Ponante, September, 2022

Labor Day in Porn Valley, 2022

September 6, 2022 Gram the Man 0

The fact that porn workers control the means of production is a very Labor Day concept

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When Super Spreader Events Were Just Known as Porn Get-togethers

May 5, 2022 Gram the Man 0

Life’s too short to be demure.

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Could we start again, please? Good Friday with Paul Thomas

April 15, 2022 Gram the Man 0

Gram Ponante talks with Paul Thomas about “Jesus Christ Superstar” and how PT doesn’t like “Happy People Having Happy Sex.”

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Recalling the 2008 SF Fetish Ball

March 22, 2022 Gram the Man 0

There are none now alive who remember the great 2008 San Francisco Fetish Ball, and that is a shame.

What the Porn Set Chalkboard Tells Us About Ourselves

November 4, 2021 Gram the Man 0

Rather than reflecting the real world or a groovy vision of the future, porn chalkboards propagate a sluttier version of the past.

Some Fantastic Place: Catching Up with Mika Tan

August 2, 2021 Gram the Man 3

Mika Tan isn’t just a voluptuous Asian to me.

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Surviving 70’s Porn Tropes And What We Can Learn from Them

March 15, 2021 Gram the Man 1

Is the 70’s porn creepiness gene necessary for our survival?

“I Think People Are the Greatest Fun”: Roy Karch Dead At 73

September 24, 2020 Gram the Man 5

At his best, Roy Karch just wanted to grok your scene.

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We Shall Overcome (on your face): On the set of “Not the Cosby Show XXX” pt. I

August 19, 2020 Gram the Man 1

I don’t think the word “black” was used once.

We Shall Overcome (on your face): On the set of Not the Cosby Show XXX pt. II

August 19, 2020 Gram the Man 0

“Not Even A Different World XXX”

AVN Awards To Go Online Rather than Onstage in Vegas

August 4, 2020 Gram the Man 0

For the first time in the ceremony’s 38-year history, the AVN Awards will be held online, rather than in Las Vegas, for the 2021 show.

Sabrina’s Deep-Thinking Big Top Gang Bang

July 20, 2020 Gram the Man 4

“If it were up to me,” Deep told me, “I’d just have them come one after the other. But this is a big production, and these people are very organized.”

Kristina rose, 2009, by Gram Ponante

Anatomy of an Oil Orgy

June 30, 2020 Gram the Man 4

Sometimes you need to turn turmoil into a big butt oil orgy.

International Workers’ Day: Working at the Houseboat

May 1, 2020 Gram the Man 0

For International Workers’ Day, an account of my year at Pip Caligulone’s Houseboat Magazine

Plague Sexts from Porn Stars: Riley Reyes

April 16, 2020 Gram the Man 0

“I can see how being a single horny guy online while tons of women are trying their hand at onlyfans or camming would make you suuuuper salty.

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Plague Sexts from Porn Stars: Joanna Angel

April 7, 2020 Gram the Man 2

During the plague, Joanna Angel talks about Jizz Conservation and stress relief via being told what to do.

Plague Sexts from Porn Stars: Casey Calvert

April 2, 2020 Gram the Man 0

Casey Calvert provides an excellent debut for this—with luck, brief—series on surviving a lockdown porntastically.

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You Can Do That in Porn: Ivy Green Becomes Demi Desire

February 21, 2020 Gram the Man 0

Demi Desire by any other name would still be the best thing that ever came out of Phoenix

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Getting To Know Doja Cat, Knowing Enough About Diplo

February 19, 2020 Gram the Man 0

I want a Re-Doja of my Doja Cat interview.

Everybody Comes to the Kink Suite

February 8, 2020 Gram the Man 0

Mimosas, dildos, and conversation on an upper floor of the Hard Rock

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