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AltPorn Awards Nominations Open for June Ceremony

March 24, 2022 Gram the Man 0

Tattoo or not tattoo?

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Recalling the 2008 SF Fetish Ball

March 22, 2022 Gram the Man 0

There are none now alive who remember the great 2008 San Francisco Fetish Ball, and that is a shame.

Rachel Starr

The Porn Valley Mail & Load: April 2, 2021

April 2, 2021 Gram the Man 0

Has there ever been a porn parody of “The Cove”?

The Porn Valley Mail & Load: March 12, 2021

March 12, 2021 Gram the Man 0

How the porn industry is selling itself this week.

The Porn Valley Mail & Load, March 5, 2021

March 5, 2021 Gram the Man 0

“A vision of exuberance and sexual delight, her lithe teen body eagerly writhes in ecstasy…”

Master Joshua

News from the Terrifying World of Bondage And Discipline

February 26, 2021 Gram the Man 0

Even in the age of Insta-dommes, giants still walk the earth.

Plague Sexts from Porn Stars: Casey Calvert

April 2, 2020 Gram the Man 0

Casey Calvert provides an excellent debut for this—with luck, brief—series on surviving a lockdown porntastically.

Everybody Comes to the Kink Suite

February 8, 2020 Gram the Man 0

Mimosas, dildos, and conversation on an upper floor of the Hard Rock

Amber Rayne

Unsung Starlet: Miss You, Amber Rayne

April 6, 2016 Gram the Man 6

Beng a porn star was only part of who Amber Rayne was, but let’s not forget that, either.

Nice Day for A White Wedding: A “Marriage 2.0” Shoot Diary

March 29, 2016 Gram the Man 2

Hot To Stop Worrying And Love San Francisco Polyamory

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Crucifellatio: Its origin and basis in science

March 26, 2016 Gram the Man 5

Into thy mouth I commend something other than my spirit or: don’t make me use this right hand in paradise.

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Truly, Madly, Beat Me: “Gone” Is A Postmortem BDSM Love Story

March 22, 2016 Gram the Man 0

Spanky Yankees teach us that sometimes, the best safeword is “goodbye.”

Chanel Preston & Pro Villain

Consent for Ca$h: Abducting Chanel Preston

October 20, 2015 Gram the Man 1

Will Chanel Preston escape from her bondage peril at the hands of a Pro Villain?

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“Home Street Home”: When Rent Isn’t Easy

March 16, 2015 P. Weasels 1

An engaging but occasionally difficult musical, a brutal comedy about family, homelessness, drugs, BDSM, punk music, and power exchange.

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2014: Why Nudity Matters

December 31, 2014 Gram the Man 1

2014 was the year porn became a visual medium.

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Greene And Hartley Tag-Team Consenting Audience in “Master of O” Reading

November 8, 2014 Gram the Man 0

Submissives are father to the master

Julie Simone

Julie Simone, A Woman: Women Spanking Women—Good for Women?

October 16, 2014 Gram the Man 0

Julie Simone on the thrill of spanking women

Pro Villain: Bondage Blowjobs And Kidnapping Go Better Together

October 11, 2014 Gram the Man 2

“These fetishes are all about a loss of personal control,” Pro Villain says.

Master Of O

Gentleman/collar: Ernest Greene’s Masterful “Master of O”

September 5, 2014 Gram the Man 0

“Everyone is aware of limits, so that when the limits get breached there is a reckoning.”

“Gagged” Order: Help Julie Simone Stuff Your Mouth with Truth

March 4, 2014 Gram the Man 0

“Gagged” is a conversation piece about people whose lips are sealed professionally.

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